The first date

Q:  I’m currently dating a guy and he’s in the Army and will be stationed somewhere else next week.  But I met a guy who works at a hot dog stand and he wants to take me out on a day trip to a nearby beach.  I’ve never dated 2 guys at one time and I feel like I’m cheating on Army boy if I go out on a date with hot dog boy.  Army boy hasn’t said anything about the future of our relationship after he moves, whether we will become official or serious.  Should I go out with hot dog boy?

A:  Darling, if military boy wanted to continue something beyond his move, he would’ve said something or mentioned it by now!!!  You’re not exclusive with him til you both say so and say that there’s no one else for either of you.  Don’t make him a priority if you’re just an option.  Who knows he may have gone out on a date with someone else while he was with you!  Honey, you gotta do YOU and find out what’s best for you, so until homeboy makes it loud and clear, you’re free to go out with another guy or guys if you desire.  I’m sure you’re a great girl and Army boy is slacking if he hasn’t said what’s next between you.  So, go have a hot dog or three!  Life is too short!


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