Dating while asleep

Q: I met a guy last week while we were out and we danced the night away. I was feeling the vibe and he was attractive and cute. My friends and I decided to grab a bite to eat, and he came along. He definitely was interested just by his body language and he kept looking my way. Afterward, we decided that we’d all take a walk down the beach, as we were walking over, he asked me if I would visit him in Chicago some time. Without thinking about it, I instinctively said ‘yes’. The rest of the night, he relentlessly tried to get me to kiss him, but I refused. If he really wanted me to visit him in Seattle like he said, then he could wait til then. And after that, I thought about it more, I told him he would have to come back down to Miami to visit me first before I’d go up there. So, the rest of the night, we hung out at the beach, went back into one of the local bars that was still open, and watched the sunrise. By then we were both exhausted and we exchanged numbers, agreeing to stay in touch. Now that he’s back home, I can’t tell if he’s interested, this guy averages only 1 or 2 texts per day. Here are the last few conversations we’ve had over the past few days:

March 21 3:18pm

ME: So were you planning on responding to my comment in the last text?

March 21 9:15pm

HIM: Yes I was planning on it. I fell asleep last night and I was busy making dat money all day. I 4got about sayn headn Miami. I was a lil f*ckd up.

HIM: I’m always down for Miami tho

March 22 7:13am

ME: Lol. Interesting. I didn’t realize you were that jacked that night! You said a lot of things! You were spitting out your vacation days next month, do you recall that. So, do you drive around lots with your job?

March 22 5:21pm

HIM: Yeah, I recall that and most of the stuff but it was a long night/day lol. I’m constantly driving around with my job and this week I’ve been real busy bcuz this guy quit so I gotta run his route.

March 23 7:15pm

ME: Guess what, I just met someone from Seattle. Weird. 2nd one I’ve ever met and both were within the same week.

HIM: Seahawks!!

ME: She says ‘Go Colts.’ She grew up loving them!

HIM: Boo! Go seahawks.

ME: She said ‘ewwww’. Haha. I say Go Dolphins! Woot woot!

HIM: Dem Dolphins suck!

ME: Whatev! I’m not a bandwagon fan. I stay true to my team! Say what you want! I ain’t hearin ya!

HIM: I can respect that. Me too, true to Seattle!

ME: Good. I’m glad you get that. I’m competitive, you don’t want to see that side of me. Lol. What are you doing tonight?

HIM: Just got somethin to eat watchin the Seahawks game. I was relaxing cuz of a long day at work. Might head to the club or maybe the casino in a lil.

Should I continue talking to this guy?

A: Wow, I almost fell asleep reading those texts. Is this guy seriously trying to reel you in with these conversations? Not once does he ask about you, that’s a huge sign of lack of interest on his part. Sure he texts you, but he’s definitely not in high pursuit mode to win you over. He sounded like he talked up a big game when he met you, but he was drunk. Guys like that should wear signs on their fore head that say ‘BS’er.’ Obviously the man can’t hang, he either 1) never really dates and doesn’t know what to do 2) is really busy or 3) thinks he can keep you around without any effort and checks in daily to make sure you’ll still respond. And it’s 1) you could give him the benefit of the doubt, but you’re going to have to teach him and boy oh boy do you have a lot of teaching to do, stack on top of that you guys are 1000+ miles away and it’s destined to be a flop. If it’s 2) the guy would make effort regardless or at least tell you he’s busy and he’ll message you later. If he can find time to breathe, he can find a way to get in touch with you. If it’s 3) cut your losses girlfriend, you can do better than finding a man who gives you attention at the rate of 2 texts a day. I think I get more texts than that from my bank alerts! This is all new, so you’ll have to feel out for what his situation is. But if it were me, I’d shake it off, there’s no attachment right now and homeboy apparently can’t even play the game, much less find a bat to step up to the plate with. If anything, at least you can read his texts to put you to sleep. Good night, thanks for the bedtime story!


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